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Same for her need to gossip about people who have not initiated any contact with her for years because she clearly puts her own gratification over friendship, requires ego-strokes from everyone, is on a mission to convert everyone to worshiping star wars, gets insanely defensive about sw, toys, or AI, and always shows off how much she thinks she knows whatever she talks about, and shows a strong longing to stay forever inside her childhood, where there's no responsibility or expectation to act like an adult.
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That's why her need to puff herself up as the coolest, smartest, swaggering girl boss who "won't change for anybody! No pointless rules!" etc. Or the most sensitive.
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She may boast about how well she's doing or how good she's feeling, but she will never admit she is terrified of silence and being alone with herself. That is why she constantly called Persons1&2 all the time, day and night. She is desperate for admiration and pity.
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Fluteplayer86 also expects people to be perpetually sorry for her over her dad's death, when he's been gone well over half her life. But she does not show others the same consideration, even if she tries to make a show of it in a group setting.
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8. It's one thing to like/enjoy something. It's another to take it to this delusional addicted level when you can't even leave it at the door when talking to someone who just lost a family member, and you keep bothering them with thoughtless selfish demands to indulge you when they need to look after their own well-being and try to heal.
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She did succeed with Person4 for a time, but they saw the light when she said their deceased loved one was "one with the force".
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She denies their efforts were out of caring until she pushed them away with her star wars and clingyness.
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She did not succeed with Stephen, and that's why she's so mad at him. She accuses him of trying to change people just as she accuses Persons2&3 of trying to control and change her.
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Everything Fluteplayer86 accuses people of, she is guilty of herself.She did not succeed with Stephen, and that's why she's so mad at him. She accuses him of trying to change people just as she accuses Persons2&3 of trying to control and change her. She denies their efforts were out of caring until she pushed them away with her star wars and clingyness.
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People have bullied Persons1&2 for her and her star wars. They stalk one of their channels, or she does and then goes whining to them and they send email and Whatsapp harassment messages.
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She has mentioned first and last names of a couple people in some of her rants. She has given out people's personal information, phone numbers and emails to strangers, and tried and succeeded in some cases, to get those strangers harassing the people she hates over star wars.
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If anything, Fluteplayer86 stalks people.
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And Fluteplayer86 has the nerve to accuse that person of stalking her. No. Fluteplayer86 played Person1 like a violin for decades! And this person is glad to have her out of their life and gain some real friends instead.
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When the third person cut off the star wars indulgent supply, Fluteplayer86 went back to the very first person she had put through an up and down abusive emotional wringer since her school days.
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7. Fluteplayer did the same with Person3 when Person2, her best supply finally took down her rp group and started avoiding Fluteplayer's incessant demands for attention.
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One person in particular had made themself way too available to Fluteplayer far too long and when that person lost their loved one, Fluteplayer kept demanding time, attention, and tried to fix them, to make them change from the depressed devastated person into a compliant little living star wars roleplay toy, like they had been during the pandemic and before new jobs and other things came along irl..
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She was trying to get them to feel bad about requesting and finally telling her to stop spamming them with star wars since they had lives after covid and life was giving them a bunch of real things that were good and bad, and they just wanted her to be decent and stop demanding so much time and attention from them especially for indulging her fantasies.
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Fluteplayer86 made up this whole thing, first as an attempted guilt-trip, saying to any number of them "Maybe I should just give it up."
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Fluteplayer86 deluged these people with star wars and childish prattle day in and day out, especially whenever she could reach them any time day or night.
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Fluteplayer86 deluged these people with star wars and childish prattle day in and day out, especially whenever she could reach them any time day or night.
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She was advised to go to star wars fan places on the net and get her fill there, play with and watch the gargantuan collection of media and toys she has in her own room, but people who don't want that stuff flooding their own lives have the right to life without that crap.
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6. No one ever told or tried forcing Fluteplayer86 to "give up star wars". She forced it on them, and they wanted it out of their own lives. One of these people even said in a message "If you want to enjoy star wars, fine, but you don't have the right to force it on the rest of us." and that's exactly what she does.
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She behaves as if anything she says especially when extremely emphasized, will and must be taken for a universal truth and never to be doubted, questened, and especially never disagreed with.
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Sure, she'll put on a big show of listing various things she's into besides star wars, but that is pointless, and only a strategy to make people think she is not addicted to and worshiping star wars.
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All these people were trying to help her as nicely as they could, to grow up. They put up with more than anyone should have with her constant star wars, her clinginess, her drudging up all kinds of stuff she claimed other people did to her in the past, things she most likely lied about just as she's still doing to the people she rants about on social media today...
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When called on it, she claimed she did not start it. But she did. Wearing sw apparel or taking sw toys with you is attempting to get attention for it in her case.
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While associating with them, Fluteplayer86 would call Persons1,2or3 constantly and bore them with blather about star wars, toys, how she arranged all her new toys in her room, how some driver to or from her work was in agreement about the sw sequels, how a new person at work was into star wars too, it was always star wars star wars star wars.
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Everybody was sick of it but mostly suffered in silence and humored her. One person wouldn't go for that and she kept trying to shut the argument down, but Fluteplayer just kept on and on, trying to wear Person2 down.
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Fluteplayer86 tried to control everyone and make them change for her. She kept on and on with them about how poor and tragic Vader was and how he was really a sweet guy.
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Stephen Musicman81 didn't just out of the blue call her on Whatsapp and tell her to give up star wars. She initiated the contact, because she knew Stephen was friends with one of the people Fluteplayer86 hates, and she was trying to break them up and she wanted Stephen to hate everyone else who is sick of her star wars and childishness.
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5. Fluteplayer86 does try to start drama, that's why she's always in the thick of it. Only she wants it hitting everyone else, if people say derisive things about someone else and coddle Fluteplayer86, she's happy as a pig in shit for a while. But when the attention wears off, she starts all over again and she never lets a grudge go. That's why she's attacking Stephen now.
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All those so-called apologies she makes are all strategy to make herself look like a timid innocent people-pleaser.
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She got herself kicked off a whatsapp group for deliberately breaking the group rules, she has a terrible problem with anyone else making rules. It's all about control with her. She also got kicked off a podcast for the same thing and namecalling one of its hosts.
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Fluteplayer never takes responsibility for her bad behavior. Notice that? If something happens she isn't happy with and smugly dismisses, she always blames someone else. She never admits her wrong actions caused the whole thing.
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Her victim act flipflops frequently with that bold "I'm cool! Nothing bothers me!" "I just did this to them and it's their loss!" thing. She pretends she's head and shoulders above especially anyone she longs to humiliate into the dust because they dared not to give her her own way.
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4 . Notice how Fluteplayer is always going on and on, and on about people supposedly trying to make her change? No. She's the one always trying to make other people change. She does that by pretending to be a victim so people will feel sorry for her. She acts childish so people won't suspect her capable of manipulation. That's how she sucks people in to her control.
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She had not one kind word about any of the people who passed on though one of these people had talked with her over Facetime every so often.
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She threw a Yoda-ism at Person number two over another lost loved one and actually pointed it out as if she thought that was something special. "Alone you are not, grieve with you we will, as Yoda would say."
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Fluteplayer86 told Person number 3 her deceased loved one was "one with the force" through sw character voices on voice changers - when that person needed a true friend who really gave a damn and did NOT appreciate this tragedy being trivialized and boiled down to star wars...!
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3. Fluteplayer86 judged two more people along with Person1 as "freaks" and "losers" and worthy of her everlasting hate&smear campaigns after they initiated a temporary separation from her because she was so clingy and star wars obsessed, and they had far more important things in real life they were dealing with. That separation is permanent, she will never get them back.
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Fluteplayer86 tossed Person Number One away over sw roleplays when Person1 got sick of it, and Fluteplayer86 reeled Person1 back in when she probably wore others out and thought she could bring Person1 back and use them for her sw pleasures again.
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2. Fluteplayer tried to get Person2 to bully Person1 shortly after she felt Person2 would have her back. And she's doing the same thing now by stirring up this muck, hoping to get everyone bashing and bullying everyone who has ever told her to grow up and stop forcing star wars on them. Stephen's blocking her was definitely the right move, and Persons one through three have no wish to ever communicate with Fluteplayer86 again. But they are sick of discovering she is still lying her ass off and painting herself as the person who heroically dodged the control bullet when she is the true ringleader causing trouble everywhere she goes.
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She doesn't get upset when someone is mean to someone else, she only gets genuinely upset when someone gives her some consequences for her constant star wars spew. She might put on a big show of being upset about an injustice if she thinks that will get her in the good graces of whoever she is currently trying to impress, and keep under her control.
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Fluteplayer86 complained about someone removing her from an email group because of her "love of star wars". That person was just sick of it, and it's not love, it's an addiction. Passions and hobbies don't make adults ditch friends and then wage years long smear campaigns against them. A normal adult when finding out they are annoying others with their stuff, would stop it and go find appropriate places to share that stuff.She complained constantly to others about the email list person's calling her at inconvenient times. But she did that to Persons 2&3 to an insane degree, even calling Person2 at work, even after being told to stop.
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Star Wars itself is trivial, but what FlutePlayer86 does to people is not. No one should be forced to "tolerate" loads of stuff being imposed on them when they do not want it, not even if there was a time they tolerated it in the past. Although she'll try to make a big show of listing all the various other franchises she's into. She hasn't abused anyone over Aladin or Harry Potter yet, as far as I know. But star wars is a different story.
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The only person I'll name in these written comments for now is Stephen since this is primmarily who Fluteplayer86 has been attacking in her April 11 ramble about being blocked. Other people will get assigned numbers and she has verbally pillowried them in past rambles too.
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She twists every narrative to make herself out to be the victim and defiant hero whogot her own back on someone else and she expects sympathy and accolades for that. Persons 2 and 3 felt obligated to put up with that for years since everyone else coddled her in every chat. But they were secretly sick of it.
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Someone is trying to cause trouble against innocent people, who shouldn't be judged until one has walked a mile in their shoes. Because there's quite a bit to deal with, it's going to be in several messages. 1. Be very careful with Fluteplayer86, it's best not to engage her at all and give her attention and undeserved praise and sympathy, and star wars, is what she wants. Don't allow her to persuade you to be down on anyone she rants about because she distorts things wildly, leaves out all details of her troublesome behavior causing drama, and all out lies about people who refuse to let her stomp all over them. You're not getting the whole truth of any matter she rants about other people, not even close.