Public service announcement!!! Give your ramble a title, please
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Joseph King
A couple things. First, as I said in my first response to you, Mr. Goldenberg, from how I read it, your initial comment did indeed come across as rude via text. Second, this is not you being correct. This is you, stating an opinion. Lastly, again as I have said it in my previous comments, it’s a courtesy thing. Also, again, keep in mind that technically speaking, this is a social media platform. Generally speaking, people with bios on their profiles and titles on their posts will get more interaction than those without. This is the last thing I will say on the matter. Good day.
Josh Goldenberg
No that wasn't rude that was just me being correct. But, why do the majority of people assume the worst of someone if they don't have information out there? Every human being is different, every human being is unique, they are their own individual people. So shouldn't we take the approach where we assume nothing about a person when we first meet them and then based on individual data, we can start making educated guesses based on evidence? Why do we as a society think it's acceptable to assume the worst of somebody when we don't even know them, just because they decide to not put information out there or something, every human being is different, everyone does things differently everyone works differently, even if there are similarities or certain things that are the same identical does not exist in perfection also does not exist, so why are we assuming anything about a person we don't know before gathering individual evidence and making educated guesses or justified assumptions based on that? That's what I think we should start doing, and when I say we I mean everyone in the world, society. And like I said, everyone has their own standards and boundaries that they should be allowed to follow, but instead of trying to get people to follow yours, simply find those people in the world who already do. So if you have the boundary of, I don't want to listen to ramble with no title, then don't. No one is telling you you have to, no one is getting upset with you for not doing it, that is your choice. But that doesn't mean other people have to put titles. The reason why is because that, how do I explain this. It kind of comes off like, I don't know, you're trying to get people to follow your boundary and do what you want them to do, rather than letting them do what they want to do and choosing whether or not to accept them based on your standards. Is it that the best approach? Shouldn't we be doing that? My friend Ethan said he would not want to follow someone on an app who doesn't have a bio. That's fine. That's his boundary, and that is perfectly fine for him to follow it, but that doesn't mean other people have to follow it. That is his boundary which means he gets to follow it, other people can do what they want. He does not have to agree or accept it. Nobody should judge Ethan4 having his boundary, and no one should judge those people who don't put bios. Both things are perfectly fine and acceptable. 
Joseph King
Jo Billard
Joseph King
Josh Goldenberg
OK, what I'm about to say comes from a sincere and respectful place, but I'm going to be very blunt about it, but I swear that anything I'm about to say is not going to be mean or disrespectful, it's just me being very blunt and direct, here goes. Why the heck do you guys care so much? I'm sorry, but it's literally not that big of a deal whatsoever. So what, if people don't want to put a title, they don't have to put a title. If you don't want to listen to the ramble because there's no title, don't. If you do, then do it. But, although it's perfectly OK to make suggestions, it's not OK to, I don't know, get demanding or aggressive about it, in a way. So what, people don't put titles. Literally just click on the ramble if you actually want to hear it. If you don't, then don't, skip past it, and move on. And for those people that don't want to put titles, that's fine you don't have to, but if people do not want to listen to your rambles because there's no title, that's their choice. That doesn't mean that you have to put a title, it just means that they simply are not going to listen to them because there's no title. You can think it's not fair, or they're making too big a deal of it, but that's their boundary. If they don't want to listen to Rembles with no title, they don't have to. It's the same thing on the other side. If people don't want the title their Rembles, that's fine, it's literally not that big of a deal. If you think it is, then simply don't listen to them and move on. Also about the username thing, really, we're making big deals about what people's usernames are now? Why can't someone's username be 598413 whatever? So what? It's a username, it is a name it's literally not that big of a deal. If you want to hear the person's voice, click on it to hear the ramble. If not, then don't. It's that simple. Also about putting a bio, some people might not want to put a bio, and it doesn't make people look lazy if they don't want to put a bio, I'm sorry but I have to say, that kind of came off as a bit rude, I know you most likely did not mean it that way I'm just saying. But what I wanna know is why are we making big deals about this type of stuff, whether or not people title their rambles, what their usernames are, whether or not they put a bio. As long as everyone is following the guidelines and not causing harm to innocent people, they can do whatever they want. It's their life, it's their ramble, it's their name, it's their profile. Only they should get a say and what happens to it, only them, and if other people don't like it, that is perfectly fine, I respect that, you don't have to like it. But no one should be getting upset or being disappointed in people for not doing what they want them to do. As long as people are not getting hurt, people are allowed to do whatever they want. No one should ever get to dictate what someone does with their username or their profile or how they title their ramble, that is up to them, and them alone. If you would rather not listen to a ramble with no title, that's OK, nobody saying you have to. Just simply skip past it and move on down the list. If you don't want to interact with someone who has no username or no bio, that's your boundary, that's fine, but that doesn't mean people have to just because you don't like the fact that they don't. If they don't want to, that's their boundary. If you don't want to talk to them or listen to them, that's your boundary. Therefore, you guys are logically incompatible, go your separate ways and leave each other alone if that's how you feel. But don't start trying to tell people what to do and trying to, somewhat make people do things in a certain way the way you want them to. No. Let people be themselves and do what they want to do. Based on your subjective standards and boundaries, you can choose to accept them or not. You can choose to interact with them or not. If you want to, great, then you need to accept them for who they are. If you don't, that's fine too, then you guys are incompatible, move on. Stop making big deals about minor things and let people live their lives the way they want to. Don't interfere and less people are actually getting hurt, which they're literally not. I am not trying to get on anyone for having an opinion here. I am simply saying, this is so, I don't know. This seems like such a minor unnecessary thing. So what, people don't tighter the rambles, they don't have usernames, they don't have bios. OK and? What, that means they're what, lazy, a bad person, something else? That means nothing. Every person is different. Every case is different. Every situation is different, everything is different. This literally just does not make any sense to me whatsoever. Just simply be yourselves. If people are not going to accept you for who you are, they don't have to, then simply find people who do accept you. Do not change yourself or compromise yourself for anyone else. Just be you, and find those particular people who will accept you. Even if it takes a while, eventually you'll end up finding them. But don't try and put people in a position where they feel like they have to do something that they might not want to do just so they can fit in or feel accepted. No, that's not cool. 
King Tripple Whopper
Pat
Since I'm bitching, I thought I'd add. Please put a bio in your profile. Just makes you look lazy when you have nothing in your bio. 
Pat
Agreed. Also, can you change your username from 591843 to a regular normal name. Definitely would help. 
The Music Box keepper
Daisy
I would also add that if you're dictating your title, maybe give it a second glance before you post lol. There are a lot of titles that get cut off because they're too long, and titles that repeat half of the text a second time. But this is just me nitpicking. At least there is a title in those cases.
Daisy
Yes yes yes! Hard agree. I don't even listen to posts that have no title and are just ramble for whatever date. The title is what lets me know if I'm going to be interested in what you're saying and if you can't be bothered to add one, I can't be bothered to listen.
Dale
For those of you creating posts, the date will always be put in the field and the cursor will appear at the end of the date. You can easily delete the date by just deleting it from the field before you insert your title. Alternatively you can double tap when in the edit field to put yourself at the beginning of the text so you can enter your title and the date will appear afterwards
Chantel Cuddemi
Jo Billard
I agree. We all want to know what you have to say, and a title gives us just that little open door that we just have to open the rest of the way.
Jayson Tyler
Also the usernames too when people first join