Ladies, what are your rules for a friend with benefit?
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Eddie Howitzer
Nor do I Allure!  I came up with this question when I actually saw it on a YouTube video that was a Reddit thread.  
Allure
Déjà Brew Diane
PIKACHU!
Needs to be exclusive with me. And must be an actual friend. And must have multiple benefits. 💍🖖💎 
Happy Metalhead
Eddie Howitzer
Honestly I simply posted this thread because I was telling a friend of mine that if I post this threat, that a bunch of guys are going to start to answer it even though I said ladies. She is going to laugh when I tell her that I was right.  
Eddie Howitzer
Tom did you not read the title, nor hear the whole message? I was asking this for the women 
Tom the transplanted southerner and BE vendors
user375146
Well, I am course currently not looking for a friend with benefits but if I was here is what I would require. Occasional sex. But it has to be equal. It can't always be when he wants it. And it does not have to be every time I want it. But we would need to be able to accommodate each other occasionally perhaps at least once a month. No more than that because we might start getting too attached. I would expect a birthday shout out. Don't completely ignore me on my birthday. That's rude. You can send a text message. You don't necessarily have to take me out but it would be nice if you could order me some food on DoorDash or something. That is, if I'm not doing something else. If I don't have any other plans. You don't even have to call because you may be busy doing your own thing. If we do agree to hook up and do whatever, I expect you to fulfill that commitment. Like I said, it does not have to be frequent but when it's scheduled, you should commit and a no call no show is an absolute no no. When we are together, either just hanging out or being intimate, I don't want to hear about your other relationships or pursuits. It's not that I'm jealous or anything I just don't give a damn. I just want to be with you for these few hours. No overnights. That's gross. No need for that. Next thing I know you'll be bringing your toothbrush. No no. Go home. I'm not going to ask you for money or anything but if you'd like to give me some, I'll take it. I'm blind but if I was driving and having some trouble with my car and as a friend I just told you about it, if you want to, You can send me some money for my car repair. You don't have to, but it would be really sweet. No pop-up visits. I have my own personal life and I could be doing whatever so I don't need you to pop up and to say oh, I was in the neighborhood and I just stopped by to see what you were doing. No no no no no. If you're in the neighborhood, and you're bored, I wanted to come over or just hang out or we wanted to you know you wanted to see if I wanted to go out or something, text me. No asking me about my personal relationships or pursuits. Mind your business. If I want to talk to you About some other guy I'm checking out, I will. But if I don't. Don't ask. None of your business. And that I say, mind your business??? Mind your business mind your business mind your business and keep our business private. If some friends of ours or a relative of yours or mine sees us out at the mall or at a restaurant, so be it. We are just friends hanging out. But if we're intimate, no one, I mean no one needs to know that. That would be our little secret. 
Haley2026
i am a all or nothing kind of person, so no go on that