Ramble for January 29, 2026 why am I always the one getting hurt in relationships
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Meg
You are already my friend on this app. Thank you.
Tigger
Hey Meg, do you wanna be friends. 
Tigger
Here’s the thing. I met her in person. 
Retro Tezz
Facebook dating is pretty accessible buddy 
Meg
Just wondering how you know they are not hurt? They must seem to have it all together to you right? Just trying to figure it out. I’m guilty of ghosting others as well and grief is not an excuse for that, but I have been grieving a lot and there’s a lot more I need to do before. I am truly ready for a relationship without things like that. It’s complicated but Platonically speaking, I ask myself what am I doing to consider that the other person has feelings as well? It’s really hard especially when we are so hurt by their actions but relationships are a two-way street. Aren’t they? 
Meg
I really relate tonight. Having an angry blind time here again. Hate to say it because I know you guys will probably get tired of it. Feeling the always feeling tonight. Not romantically, but with family… And it’s not fun. I know it will pass, but that’s no excuse for either of us to pretend that something isn’t wrong here. Or whatever the case may be. I also have a headache on top of it and I don’t wanna give that negative energy to the community here But I’m just feeling tonight like I’m the blind one and the sighted one is constantly getting hurt by my feelings. Or like I am just burdening them. So I might not know the situation fully but I relate. Nice to be able to express that stuff here.