Audiomo Day 27: More Malicious Intent, and 2 Worst Treatments as a Listener
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you speak your own reality.
Weird James
Hello Celeste. Your coworker was not wrong to think you were yelling. People have their own feelings and instead of fight them to tell them they are wrong, acceptence goes a long way towards a better work environment. It's good to losen up and see things from someone's perspective other than your own. It sounds like the anger just ramped up instead.
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Celeste, AKA DJ Celrock
Just the same, this particular listener failed to understand that I wasn’t yelling to begin with, I was only teasing the station manager, and this listener failed to recognize that, and continued to take issue with me yelling, when I was never yelling, in the first place. They even bossed me around, telling me in a very accusitory tone, to not yell at, “Insert Manager’s Name,” like that. Even the station manager was smart enough to realize I was teasing them, and not yelling, thus, never taking offense to what all went down. It really makes me mad when people react personally to how I treat friends of their’s, like it’s a personal attack towards the person taking offense. Honestly, if you’re not personally being attacked, you shouldn’t let it bother you so much. However, I’ve dealt with this type of behavior countlesss times throughout my lifetime. I’m not going to get along with every single friend and family member of yours, so please, don’t take it personally, if I can’t get along with every single person in your social circle.
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Celeste, AKA DJ Celrock
Yes that’s right, this entire story, is from my point of view. It’s just very sad how, the older I get, themore negative most people around me, have become. When I was younger, people were much more friendlier, and didn’t hold grudges, easily forgiving my flaws and moving on. However, the older I get, the more people would rather hold on to grudges, and the less optamistic, and the more pestamistic, they have become. Not everybody, but I would say, nearly 95% of the relationships I’ve had over the last 18 to 20 years, have either, disappeared, or permanently turned their backs on me, and try their best, to turn everybody else against me too. It’s sad, and I wish people would go back to the way they treated me in the 1980’s and 1990’s. Rather than treating me with respect from the start, most people just assume, I’m an evil, heartless, individual, who wants to be mistreated all along. They also don’t get to know me, and would rather judge me, than get to know me for who I really am, and respect my differences and flaws. I’m not perfect, but you’d think with how most people treat me, I’ve been nothing but imperfect, every single day, of the 41-and-a-half years I’ve been alive on this planet. Very few people, actually treat me like a human being, and there are only a handful of people, who I am able, to truly, call my friends.
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