StickyRice
Well, if he is unable to talk stuff out like mature adults, not sure if that is a friendship worth investing in? I'm certain that's a red flag. If he started sending mean messages to you and not properly explaining himself. Anyway, good luck.
TanyaHorrorLover
Not that long. We’ve known each other maybe a couple of years. No I didn’t know. He wasn’t one about dropping hints. Which kind of threw me off. 
StickyRice
I'm sorry that happened! How long had you guys been friends? Did this kind of come out of nowhere or has he dropped hints before? Strange