Short bus Friday
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I felt like that what his motive was, but I wasn’t quite sure lol. And it’s so refreshing to hear somebody who feels the same as me about meeting people. You gotta get to know them and yes, I will be the first to admit. I’m guilty of rushing headlong into something very very fucking quickly. Trust me it doesn’t end well I mean I know you know this lol
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Thank you! Glad someone else said it. Not because I wouldn't have if somebody were to ask, but simply because i'm not really an avid poster. I feel like a lerker is the wrong term, but most of the time I guess that's what I do. It's hard to put your imput into things that aren't really intellectually stimulating. Would I or could I do better? Maybe if I found something that I felt was note worthey enough to post about or that I thought somebody else would be interested. Some people come on here and act like they just post for there own entertainment when the app clearly is for socialization. And bro I am a single guy and unless my mind was blown and I met somebody who I connected enough with on here, which I doubt will happen, this is one of the last places I'd be looking for a woman.
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My problem is that I hardly date so when I do find somebody I click with I’m like oh my God this person is so hot. Maybe they’ll be my life partner and it’s totally something you don’t wanna take lightly.
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Everyone makes mistakes in their life, that’s a given, but you can tell, people here have made the same mistakes over and over and over and continue to.
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This is very true, it’s not just on here. I mean, considering most of these people have migrated from other apps as well such as Twitter and Clubhouse there’s also dabble and vorail
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Although I will take the other side of things though, and say that we’re not getting any younger, so if you feel a connection sometimes maybe why not go ahead and jump in the deep end right away because you’ll never know unless you try
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Mazikeen?
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My name is daniel Shawn Keen lol
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O so Mazikeen is from a Netflix show called Lucifer. She is his sidekick.
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I guess I’m a dumbass too, doug just sent me a message telling me who you are, duh.
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Thanks Doug lol.
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Oh my God, no! I don’t know if I wanna do that. That’s kind of scary as fuck. So does it analyze both people in the text message or if you want to analyze one person such as yourself or another person you just copy and paste their part of the text, In.
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OK now I’m a bit more curious than I should be. I need to get more people‘s numbers and start chatting with them so that I can do this lol. This might actually be an interesting way of weeding out the psychopaths from your life I wonder. Like I wonder how accurate it really is.
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Copy and paste this into a chat along with the screenshots or transcript: Act as an objective behavioral analyst and communication coach. I am sharing a transcript/screenshots of a text exchange with someone I am considering dating or entering a relationship with. Analyze this conversation through an unbiased, practical lens. Avoid clinical diagnoses (do not try to label them with DSM disorders), but evaluate their observable communication habits, emotional maturity, and relational readiness. Please break down your analysis into the following sections: 1. Communication Dynamics & Reciprocity: - Who is driving the conversation? What is the effort/engagement balance? - How responsive, attentive, and curious are they about me versus talking about themselves? 2. Red, Yellow, and Green Flags: - Green Flags: Clear signs of maturity, active listening, respect for boundaries, and genuine interest. - Yellow Flags: Ambiguities, slight inconsistencies, mixed signals, or mild oversharing. - Red Flags: Boundary violations, entitlement, guilt-tripping, manipulation, excessive defensiveness, or severe volatility. 3. Emotional Regulation & Transparency: - How do they handle disagreement, delay, or vulnerability? - Do they communicate directly, or do they lean on passive-aggression, emotional dumping, or vague hinting? 4. The "Market Research" Verdict: - What does this interaction suggest about their current readiness for a healthy, balanced connection? - What are 2–3 targeted questions or topics I should bring up next to test their consistency and see how they hold up in real conversation? [Paste screenshots or text transcript below]
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So now that you pasted that, thanks by the way, but can you actually get AI to try and analyze them with disorders? I mean, that would be freaky as fuck and maybe not the best thing to do but it would be entertaining as all hell.
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I agree with you there’s definitely some cool people on here, but it’s hard to find through everything else to be honest
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Of course, that’s easy, just ask your AI to rewrite my prompt for a real psychological evaluation
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100%, this is the AI prompt. Anyone should use if you have two baby daddies.
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Great post, at first I thought the AI prompt was way too analytical, sterile, and kind of takes the fun out of getting to know someone. But I got to thinking about it, and you are correct, it's better to have more information and make informed decisions. Especially this day and age where so many people over share or have very prominent social media presence. I think I'm a hopeless romantic at heart, but it's really not practical these days.
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I’m so sappy and romantic. I bet a lot of people find it sickening and ridiculous lol.
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Hey, nothing wrong with that, just don’t waste it on morons.
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If only it were that easy. But sometimes our hearts don’t always keep up with our heads if you know what I mean.
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Maybe it will be, using this prompt, like we used to say, if it helps one person it’s worth it.
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I don’t know if I’d wanna put all of my stock into it though, like if they’re saying somebody’s a psychopath and you really like them and if they’re really not a psychopath, then you could be missing out on something. I’m just being Devil’s advocate here.
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In this day and age, I think everyone is more likely to be a psychopath rather than a normal person. My best friend is in his 50s and on the dating scene, and you wouldn’t believe how many women he has met that seemed great until he found out the real story behind them. And you know what all of them have? STDs. We’re talking professional women—doctors, lawyers, and people of that caliber. Having lived and experienced life, I figure everyone is crazy until they prove me otherwise, and that just goes for friends too. I’m happily married, so glad not to be in that boat.
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Oh, I totally understand you, I mean, I know way more female psychopaths than men although I think I do know at least one male psychopath that I meant recently, but either way that is fucking wild
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hahah, not naming names but you would know them. grin.
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Are you calling me a psychopath there buddy? Lol.
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Sorry, I’m just dealing with some shit so I might be rather slow at responding to shit
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I understand, maybe we can talk about E.Z Kleghorn on here next, the guy who talks so much shit online but can't cook for himself.
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I don’t know who the fuck that is
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But I really could use some cheering up somebody be funny and make me laugh until I cry tears of joy, not misery tears
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OK, I’ll post one of my totally ridiculous songs or you can flick down till you get to my profile there’s plenty up there already lol
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Yeah, it’s because I have mixed reviews on it. We’re allowed to have mixed reviews on shit.
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