Is your heart really in it?
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TERRANCE SADLER
The post that has both of my contacts IMMEDIATELY follows "Dremy's."
TERRANCE SADLER
WELL, "MOMMY PUMPKIN PIE SPICE LATTE," of ALL RHETORICAL QUESTIONS EVER KNOWN for ALL of mankind to ask, THAT one scored the ONLY type of "TOUCHDOWN" that was a "TTO (TOTAL TAKE-OUT)!" In lieu of THAT, I'm sending you a private message that contains my "GMAIL" and "WHATSAPP" contact info for you to message me at either or both, in order for me to attach my bio to send you which DOES contain the sort of transparency (CORRECTION: I don't need to do that, because BOTH of my contacts are in my PREVIOUS post that's in this thread) that CLEARLY DEFINES my CURRENT life situation, lifelong wants, yet to be fulfilled, and WHATEVER OVERALL OTHERS, if any.
Pumpkin pie spice latte
Delaware, that is so beautiful about your parents. That is true love right there. Well what a coincidence, I just talked to my aunt on New Year's Day and she reminded me that her and my uncle have been married for 57 years as well. Best of luck to you and your search for a long time Committed relationship. Keep expecting it because I know I do. I just don't believe it will ever happen in my life as it has not happened in millions of other lives. Nice people. On both sides. But, the commitment is just not there. Not today. And Terrence, I hear you about people being transparent. I think a lot of people are but deep down they're not that committed. And who would be honest about that Terrence? Who would tell somebody, if you became broke, going to leave you. If you became disfigured in an accident, I'm going to leave you. If you develop some rare disease and need a 24 hour care, I don't think I could deal with that and I'm probably going to leave you. If somebody more sexy came along, I'm going to leave you. If my ex Wants me back, I'm going to leave you. 
TERRANCE SADLER
I DEFINITELY MUST RESPECTFULLY DISAGREE with what "PUMPKIN PIE SPICE LATTE" said about NOT EXPECTING LONG-TERM, or even BETTER, LIFELONG male/female relationships, for the VERY REASON that ONCE EACH of you are UNINHIBITTEDLY TRANSPARENT with one another from the VERY START, SUCH TRANSPARENCIES MUST INCLUDE ALL ABOUT YOU, ESPECIALLY such as what you're OVERWHELMINGLY AFRAID of letting one another find out, for fear of being MERCILESSLY DUMPED, which CLEARLY DEFINES the content of my bio which I OBVIOUSLY can't post ALL of HERE, that's over 18,000+ characters long.
Delaware
I truly understand what pumpkin latte is saying. I am a dude that still believes that love is possible. Nowadays, I just keep my options open, and if she comes along, I took my time and get to know her, and keep watching on any signs that things may not be as good as they should be. Sometimes you can see how an individual deals with personal situations, that can give you a clue on whether or not there a fighter or a quitter. I am a family type dude, I come from a close family, my parents have been married 57 years in June. I always used to say, that I wanted to at least attempt to follow their footsteps. But as pumpkin spice has showed us, unfortunately, there are not a lot of people who want to do that. But as I say, I keep my options open. 
Pumpkin pie spice latte
I used to look for that and it was one time where my heart was in it but I did not know that the other person's heart was not in it even though they said it was. Their behavior did not match their words. That was unfortunate I guess for me. I think about that a lot and I came to my own conclusion and that is that most people's heart is not in it for the long-term. It's amazing how people declare their love for each other and gaze into each other's eyes and say all this stuff and they say they can't live without the other person and all of that nonsense. Only for two years later the relationship is over and they're saying the same exact thing to someone else. Really??? Lol it's Funny. People go down the aisle and declare their love in sickness and in health till death do them part but yet again, a few years later, they're walking down the aisle with someone else declaring the same thing. Unbelievable. I personally think that people should think about Short term love rentals. Lol I think people should understand that they can have all of these warm fuzzies about someone but realize the other person may not feel the same way and there is a real good chance it's going to be temporary so don't believe all of that stuff that people say. In fact, I don't think that people should say it at all. I don't think people should be declaring their love forever and ever and ever. I don't think most people mean it. Because if they meant it, they would work it out if their relationship started getting a little rocky and they would go to therapy and all that other stuff. Most people don't do that. They just pack up and leave each other. Again that's unfortunate. I don't think that people should be getting married because marriage means long-term  and forever. I know, I'm not talking about in situations where there's abuse or adultery. I think people should just enjoy each other for as long as they can and then when someone wants to leave a relationship, I think they should be honest and say, it was fun, but I'm out of here. Just no need to cheat There's no need to hurt anyone's feelings because everyone will know that these are short term love rentals. lol read your contract 
Berlin
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TERRANCE SADLER
"BLIND THOUGHTS," my bio that's over 18,000-+ characters long DEFINITELY ANSWERS the question of where MY heart is, as far as what I'M looking for's concerned, so either e-mail me at: irefuse2growup@gmail.com or "WHATSAPP" me at: "+13476842797," and I'll send it as an attachment to you, and if you want to participate in what I created, follow this link to join: https://chat.whatsapp.com/L010TpExN8p5e9w6oDO4Z6?mode=ac_t, and PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE FREELY ADD OTHERS, YOURSELF, UNLIMITEDLY! I want MY PHONE to CONTINUOUSLY "PING," INSANELY! JUST CALL me a "FOREVER-UNLEASHED EXTRAVERT (I HOPE that's the correct spelling)!
Dremy
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