Let’s talk about perfection and what it is to you
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Jim,man of GOD, friend to GOD
💀Becky🖤
That’s another good example, yeah. When I was at uni, I faced a similar thing. Each tutor will teach in the way they see fit, forgetting that there are other ways to teach the same concepts, or different ways around the same thing, that may suit someone better. And yes, the specific rules and regulations thing - then being told that you can kind of make up your own and that’s also ok! There is no perfect way of learning anything. We all learn differently and we will all bring our own spin to it. You’re totally right, teaching is also done with the expectations of the person teaching it and they sometimes forget the wider world.
Keys
I also thought about another example how we go to college and take up different courses to learn things of our choice and as we gradually get through the courses, they tell us to learn all of the rules and regulations and guidelines only to tell us towards the end now that we know all of these things know when to break them so then I am like fitting there shaking my head, so I learned all of this only to be told to break them break the rules and again it’s still based on someone else’s expectations. What’s the right way or correct way in their eyes because they consider themselves the perfectionist in whatever they are teaching. Only to come across another person, teaching the same category, but there method that they considered perfect in their eyes or perfect for them and again we try to measure up to them or there expectations 
Keys
Very well said 
💀Becky🖤
You’re right, perfection is subjective. In the context of people, I will always say there is no such thing as “perfect” because we’re all human, and it’s a word that holds a lot of pressure. We often find ourselves carrying others’ expectations and it can be burdening. For me, it is simply having things the way I like and being content with it, without a care for what others’ have to say about it, which is a meaning to the word that can carry across the board, as humans and the things around us. Be it food, clothing, homes we live in, art we like. If we like it and it feels perfect to us, then it is 😊