What do you look for in a person that gives dating advice?
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Artemis
Ah yes, I also will listen to Jay Shetty any day!:-)
Patrick’s Penthouse
That yoga class I am taking must be working… I have agreed with Pikachu twice today and I am feeling no sensations of disturbance… :-) Right on lady… :-) 
PIKACHU in Your POCKET!
Wah, wah. Mr Eddie likened me to a mule! What? Everybody, go bash him now. 👿 It is a cow thank you very much. 😎 Anyway, on a serious note, I truly believe that when it comes to relationships, there are certain things people need to experience for themselves. You need to fall. You need to struggle. You need to find out for yourself. If relationships were purely logical, we would not have any problems. And often times, people come with their own instruction manual. Things may not always start perfectly. And things may not always end perfectly. It takes a bit of getting to know a person, and understanding their manual, I think. And any outsider is welcome to give their advice. Or, sprinkle their knowledge. But at the end of the day, how much do they know me? And how much do they know the other person? The person giving the advice may have had a lot of bad experiences or they may have had a lot of good experiences. And that in turn will influence the kind of advice they will give you. Their temperament and tolerance may be different to yours. What you are willing to tolerate, they may not. And ultimately, when emotions are involved, it’s not always an easy street to navigate. I will talk to people I trust. People who care about me and have my interests at heart. But often, it is simply the art of discussing things that will bring clarity to me. Rather than any specific advice. Sometimes, it will take months or years before I take their advice. Because it’s all about being ready to receive. Our hearts and minds may not necessarily be receptive to the advice until we are ready to take the leap. For me, I myself need to be able to rationalise it on my own. If what a person says makes sense, I will take it. Anyway, now to contradict everything I have said, I do follow the likes of Jay Shetty to give me dating advice, lol. I will listen to a cute, articulate sounding man 🙊
Artemis
Patrick’s Penthouse
Meg
Eddie Howitzer
No Pikachu! A Mule is stubborn you. You're in a class of your own! Lol
Dannotations
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I would look for someone who will give me a balanced view of both side male and female. I'm a female so you don't have to give me the advice from just a female's perspective. I think a good relationship coach would also understand, if she is a female, she would also understand the male perspective to the best of her ability. I would also want them to get straight to the point. I'm going to get lost if they go on and on and on and tell me story  after story after story and scenario  after scenario  after scenario. I would like a list of whatever. Not just a big giant blurb. And when it comes to maybe troubleshooting in a relationship, I would also like for that to be very clear and labeled so that I could take real action steps. I don't wanna have to sit back and think about everything they said. 
Déjà Brew Diane
PIKACHU in Your POCKET!
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LordLundin
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Eddie Howitzer
I hear you Meg. I have two questions for you. First question is do you feel that people who get married tend to spend more time planning, and focusing on the wedding instead of marriage? Secondly have you heard the expression of "you do not know who you're married to until you marry them."
Sky pilot 77
What I look for is someone that's successful in the field in which they're giving advice. If they're not walk away. 
Meg