Ramble for August 22, 2026
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Lord America
Did you both ever establish if you both were actually dating? Were you both actually an official couple? Did she actually see you as her boyfriend?
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Lord America
It’s simple! Just ask her how she sees you? Does she still see you as a friend? Are you both only friends? Does she see you as something more? Does she still want to keep a friendship with you?
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Lord America
If you don’t maintain things at the start and establish things at the start and you don’t keep in regular contact from the beginning, people move on. You have to put effort into the friendship and the relationship.
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Lord America
Another thing is you could ask her what are some good days and times for you to speak to her. Or just wait for her to contact you. If she’s not contacting you, then you have the answer. She’s not interested in keeping in contact. It sounds like you’re doing all the work and you’re the one that’s only contacting her so at the moment it’s a one-way friendship.
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Doug Lee
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Lord America
My suggestion is move on with your life. She has she’s working she’s busy. There’s plenty of other people out there for you. Or ask her specifically does she still want to keep a friendship with you? Does she still see you as a friend. But clearly from what you said it seems like she’s not that interested.
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Brother Daggett
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Lord America
If you saw her name on your Facebook before and you no longer see her name anymore on your Facebook she’s blocked you. She’s most likely blocked you she didn’t want to be honest with you. She didn’t wanna hurt your feelings. Time to move on let go of the past and move forward.
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Doug Lee
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Lord America
I also think that people don’t need to explain themselves all the time. She doesn’t owe him an explanation. She doesn’t owe him anything. She’s entitled not to respond. That’s her prerogative. So if she’s not going to give you an answer and she’s not going to respond just leave her alone.
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Doug Lee
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Lord America
Not trying to be horrible to the OP, but could it be possible that in his mind he felt they were friends for a long time, but in reality she didn’t see that. Also, sometimes people find it hard to understand the difference between friends and acquaintances. I believe he also said he spent a long period. Not in contact with her. If they were such friends for such a long time, then she should’ve been able to speak with him properly and not just ghost him.
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Doug Lee
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Lord America
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