do you think it's OK to watch porn when in a relationship?
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I'm genuinely curious, why would watching porn be considered cheating on your partner when you're not engaging with another human being? It's someone on a screen doing things with someone else on a screen and you're just watching it, and there's presumably no connection between you and these other people, like you don't know them personally or anything. Is it cheating to watch a sex scene in a movie? Or is it cheating if you have a sexual thought about someone else even if you don't act on it? Where is the line?
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I remember catching a part of a TV series once. I didn't see the whole thing, just a specific scene, but it really caught my attention. It showed a couple who seemed so happy together—they were having dinner, singing songs, and just having a great time. But then, while they were having an intimate moment, the husband suddenly said another woman's name. It completely ruined the mood, and they ended up sleeping in separate beds. That’s honestly such a huge insult to a partner, whether it’s the man or the woman. Even if you don’t actually see your partner with someone else, you can just feel it when something is off. In my opinion, while porn might not be the only cause of cheating, it can definitely be a factor. It’s just a painful insult when you’re sharing a moment together, but your partner is thinking about someone else instead of their partner.
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Personally, this is just purely my viewpoint!, But I think that it’s a definite no for me because I’m already attracted to my partner, and I don’t need to watch pornographic material in order to get off because I have my partner! But again this is just my opinion! I never put down others that like to do that even together as partners watching porn!
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Sorry, meant to say at the end of that audio comment. It’s not just a women!
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Recognise that that was lengthy, so for those who are going through and deciding what to listen to, mainly we were talking about how you define what pornography actually is, how do you deal with it in terms of how close you are to the performer, did you expressly request that certain content be created for you? Did you pay for it? Do you and your partner have a very different sexual drives? Is the thing that you want to get off to something your partner cannot create, by virtue of being the wrong gender, or for other reasons? So many different questions to consider in this arena.
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It depends on the couple. I personally don't watch it in or outside of a relationship. I couldn't date a woman that watches it. But I see nothing wrong with people in relationships watching it as long as it is something each agree on. But for me personally, I think it can impact relationships negatively.
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Sometimes I’m really in the mood for a Greek salad and I have all the ingredients at home, I’ve got the feta cheese and the tomatoes and the cucumber although the olives can be a bit of a problem, I don’t know where the Greek delis get them from because when I get them from the supermarket they never taste quite as good, any way I have made it at home and it tastes really good but sometimes I just need to go to a Greek restaurant to scratch that itch.
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