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  • Doug Lee

    Replying to  @cl9ton: Audio

    The term I see for the collision between perception and expectation is Cognitive Dissonance, and the term for what that does to us is often called Cognitive Load. In short, being pushed to say what is not natural causes significant mental stress. I suspect it reached a point for me during 2020 and 2021 that was more extreme than for most people. It caused physical jitters, dizziness on occasion, complete inability to concentrate even at work, and on one occasion, something like amnesia, where I went through an entire meeting that I only remember a few seconds from even now. But I haven't known for all this time how to make that make sense to most people. Strange though it may seem, the strongest parallel I've ever seen comes from Orwell's book 1984, when Winston was being told how many fingers he was supposed to say he saw.

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  • Leo Lizard Man

    Replying to  @dlee42: The term I see for the collision between perception and expectation is Cognitive

    Cognitive load?This is very helpful to learn. Thanks for the explanation. And yes, all of this “If you think that you’re part of the problem” type stuff is very much 1984.

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  • Nino

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  • Andrea Love

    Replying to  @Nino: Audio

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  • Leo Lizard Man

    Replying to  @Nino: Audio

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  • Dreamer

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  • Leo Lizard Man

    #BelieveAllWomen unless they disagree with Crackademia. You know who rules you, it’s the group of people you’re not allowed to criticize.

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  • Nino

    Replying to  @Anndrea: Audio

    Thanks for sharing that.

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  • Tapp-that-ass-🇬🇧

    Pleas don't tar all men with the same brush! That's all I will say on the matter.

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  • Andrea Love

    Replying to  @Tapper: Pleas don't tar all men with the same brush! That's all I will say on the matter

    You know I'm not tap tap. :-) I meant the men that were in the thread with me.

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  • Leo Lizard Man

    Replying to  @Anndrea: You know I'm not tap tap. :-) I meant the men that were in the thread with me.

    Mainly she’s talking about crackas in academia, boys who want to be accepted by cracka women in academia, women who would ask someone like you to repair the sink then call you a toxic masculine. Their main gig is against brown and black masculine men. Anything they say or do against us crackas is just a dress rehearsal. That’s thje men she’s talking about, I’ve known guys like that for over 40 years and I’ve prob been a guy like that in the past, to my shame. No greater white privilege than acting like them.

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  • Nino

    Replying to  @Anndrea: Audio

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  • Rondo The Fresh Prince

    Andrea, I’ve been following and listening with no judgment I am looking at at all angles of what you have said and I don’t think you have a phobia of transvestite or transgender I believe from what you said you have trauma from men you have a man problem because you talked about the abuse that your mother had and you had to watch it and the experience you had at all boiled down to a man you have problem with men , but if you didn’t have trauma, it wouldn’t be a problem, so the drama is taken over so this is not ADHD problem problem a hate to transvestite this mainly comes back to just you, Andrea and your trauma I could’ve easily made a female friend post this, but I wanted to post this Myself you might say oh another man just telling me what to do telling me how to feel now I was just observing and taking those sides and using my judgment as a human being,

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  • Cowboy Clint

    This is like the pandemic where they didn't have to follow the rules they imposed on everybody else really, just in a more fucked up form.

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  • Andrea Love

    Replying to  @the_fresh_prince: Andrea, I’ve been following and listening with no judgment I am looking at at al

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  • Nino

    Replying to  @the_fresh_prince: Andrea, I’ve been following and listening with no judgment I am looking at at al

    She’s speaking from her experience that have involved men. She could have easily told the same story involving women, because there are women that drug and love to have sex with other women as well. … makes pretty good sense to me why she wouldn’t want to take unnecessary risk

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  • Leo Lizard Man

    Replying to  @Anndrea: Audio

    Yes it is. And invalidating your experience goes against all the Women’s Liberation they have ever claimed to believe in.

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  • Rondo The Fresh Prince

    You know what I was trying to say is the trauma that’s causing her to feel this way without the trauma there will be no pay towards the man like you said if the trauma towards women it would be towards women or not liking women goes back down to trauma

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  • Nino

    Can somebody put out a pole so I can find out how many people we have on the Tran side and how many people we have on lady love side. … just really curious to know who is supporting the women and who is not. 🤨

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  • Leo Lizard Man

    Replying to  @Anndrea: Audio

    Yes, when I was a boy. Was women but it’s all the same. They’re saying to Andrea what used to be said to us boys who were victimized by women. But this is not about me. The point is, the very dismissal you are getting, they’ve been practicing this behavior for awhile now. They’re pretty good at it about now, unfortunately for women like you, to say nothing of young girls

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  • Andrea Love

    Replying to  @Nino: Can somebody put out a pole so I can find out how many people we have on the Tra

    Lady Love? I love it absolutely love it lol too funny

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  • Leo Lizard Man

    Replying to  @Nino: Can somebody put out a pole so I can find out how many people we have on the Tra

    My money is it’s all crackas opposing andrea. This is a total cracka move. brown and black women have specifically been assaulted by whites for a minute now, and since the White Wing has been exposed for it, they take cover under the Left in order to carry on. I wanta know, if you’re opposed to Andrea, any of you brown ones? Also, are you in crackademia?

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  • Andrea Love

    Replying to  @Flappybird: Audio

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  • Nino

    Replying to  @Anndrea: Audio

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  • Capitan Slap A Hoe

    Okay, time to throw the grenade. Is it fair to say that men cos-playing as women are trying to rape the women's movement by forcing themselves in to women's spaces?

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  • Ronan

    Of course she took her post down! She can't accept that someone had to step in and keep telling her to stop silencing people. I don't have a problem with her gender, nor I have a problem with what you said. What I have a problem with is poor and lazy moderation (I.E deleting comments) that presses a button before moderating their own self.

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  • Doug Lee

    Replying to  @ElCapitan: Okay, time to throw the grenade. Is it fair to say that men cos-playing as women

    I think it is fair to say that men who use law and other means to obtain the benefits of being a woman, are infringing on women, especially when the benefits in question are based on sex-based characteristics such as in sports, sex-based and long-established concerns like protection of private spaces, and sex-based benefits afforded to women as a means of enhancing equality, such as the advantages of a woman-owned business. And yes I have heard of men identifying as women trying to claim that, too, though I don't remember enough to go verify without a generic search.

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  • Andrea Love

    Replying to  @ElCapitan: Okay, time to throw the grenade. Is it fair to say that men cos-playing as women

    Absolutely. I said this under another thread. When I see trans women behave like this I think of men who've raped in pillaged for centuries. I feel like they literally just wanna take their penises and invade my world, my space, my safety. And they behave like the males they are, they use all that mail entitlement all that man privilege. They even mansplain because again, that's what they are. Real women, we don't behave this way, we don't invade because we're so used to being invaded ourselves.

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  • Leo Lizard Man

    Replying to  @ElCapitan: Okay, time to throw the grenade. Is it fair to say that men cos-playing as women

    A young Mexican American woman said this very thing on Clubhouse and my ignorant ass asked what cosplaying meant, she told me and then explained how trans are, and called it ‘woman face.’ I’m a man, so who the hell am I to argue?

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  • Nino

    Replying to  @LeoLizardMan: Audio

    🎧

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