Will you prefer to be in a relationship/marriage with someone that love you or understand you?
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Chip Chipperson
Blinky X
lyndelskey
Chemistry and attraction are certainly part of a relationship, but when you understand each other, everything just falls into place. While many qualities go into a good connection, that understanding is one of the most important for making things better. Real love means understanding—it makes life so much simpler with less conflict. Truly getting each other keeps everything stable and peaceful, and if people know and do that, maybe they can have a relationship that lasts.
Tyler
Dannotations
AfricanQueen
AfricanQueen
@da rainbow girl, thank you for picking 1.
AfricanQueen
@scabbs, in one word, love is not enough? It's has to be both love and understanding right?
AfricanQueen
@esli, great choice
Milena
scabbs
At the other hand, if the person understands without of love, then why he is my partner even? We could be friends or something in that case. Even when i have enough proofs in relationship that the person loves me, i still disbelieve it sometimes and it's killing me. I don't know what would happen to my mental health if i would find out that the person i love and marry is understanding me perfectly, but has no love for me.
scabbs
Loving without of understanding looks like the person loves another person, a picture in his head, not me. I think relationships cant be without of support, love, sexual attrection, care and understanding. That's the main pillars inn my opinion
Esli