Selina Lynnette
Brando, Balance
King Tripple Whopper
International Friends Network
@JAM66 FR FR. We're not going to bash you for this. not at all friend. The way that you said what you said, was very clever actually, well done ay?
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International Friends Network
Fred
International Friends Network
You're not the only one that's noticed that. We made 2 episodes talking about this topic . Thank you for posting this.
Jim,man of GOD, friend to GOD
King Tripple Whopper
Gordon
I really thought I was listening to Kamala Harris when I listened to this post. I had to check myself.
James
Nicole a.k.a. the Brassknucklebeauty
I know some of you are going to disagree with this. Before you do, pause. When people say, âIf you signed up for social media, you signed up for this,â no â I didnât. I signed the terms of service agreement. Those rules exist for a reason. If this were someone you knew or loved, would you really tell them to âjust block peopleâ while theyâre being harassed? Because thatâs not strength â thatâs victim-blaming. Blocking is a tool. Itâs a personal boundary. It was never meant to manage or stop harm inside a community. And it doesnât matter if you have one follower or one million â everyone deserves a basic expectation of safety under the rules we all agreed to. Whatâs making this worse is moderator tone. Telling people to âgrow upâ or âgrow a pairâ isnât leadership â itâs escalation. Moderators arenât here to dismiss harm; theyâre here to mitigate it. Explicit content is one issue. Ongoing harassment and bullying is another. Both require clarity, consistency, and follow-through. And letâs be very clear about this: it is not up to a moderatorâs personal feelings, beliefs, or emotional reactions to decide whether a rule was broken. Enforcement isnât based on vibes, toughness, or a âjust deal with itâ mindset. Itâs based on the standards YOU set and the rules YOU agreed to enforce. Right now, the people breaking the rules arenât being checked. The people calling it out are. Thatâs backwards. If YOU are the creator or part of the moderation team, YOU have to take the emotionality out of it and apply the terms of service exactly as written. That means clearly defining what counts as bullying and what counts as harassment â no guesswork, no moving goalposts. If everyone is confused about the rules, how are we supposed to move forward? Clear rules stop chaos. Vibes donât. And yes â this is literally what I do. I work with corporations and organizations on crisis response, moderation breakdowns, and harm mitigation. A post like this, with this level of clarity, is typically a $3,000 deliverable in an active crisis situation. Youâre welcome. If blocking fixed bullying, we wouldnât still be having this conversation.
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