Fuck off. You don't know shit.
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I definitely think that communication is the better option to simply being an ear through which the thoughts of others merely flow. Also, you'd be surprised by how many people appreciate a headsup like "hey, I'm kinda feeling on edge right now so can you please try not to startle me for a bit? I'll let you know when i'm leveled out again.
Heyy now. The thoughts flow in, and I repeat or mirror them back to see if i got it right, or empathize, or just respond. We're not talking about a train going through a tunnel here. You are so right about warning people. In mmy younger years I cultivated the opposite personality. Unpredictable. It didn't work. I mentioned receiving messages because earlier today I was recording a voice note to a friend and a couple messages came in. "I'm glad that my friend texted back," I said to my friend bc they came through on the recording, "but I'm depressed so everything is making me furious." So I think I'm getting the warnings better every time. I must say I am a little embarrassed at the boldness of my title now. I thought of editing it but haven't yet thought of a good replacement.
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