I’ve been hesitating to talk about this, but I have nowhere else to turn
Loading reactions…
LordLundin
LordLundin
Ciara
Artemis poses a great point, the people in your immediate family will likely be able to offer more help than we can because if something happened they would be close by and could help you through it. The police will likely ask for evidence in the report so I would give them the evidence that you do have if you have any messages between you and him or anthing like that. Considering this guy has been arrested before, it is also possible that police are already on the lookout for him in Canada, but alerting the police in australia means that they will also be looking out for him and therefore it would be very easy for them to catch him if he tried to do anything.
Artemis
Artemis
Ciara
Please also be more careful with what you share online. You never know what kinds of intentions people have. Always air on the side of caution and if you suspect someone is up to something, even just a little, don't share anything personal with them. Make sure they are somebody that you absolutely know you can trust because the Internet is a very dangous place, particularly for women and unfortunately even more so for blind women. I do agree with other comments though; don't let him make you afraid to live your life. I think it's unlikely that he will actually do anything considering you are in a different country but it would be worth it to report him anyway because if he ever tries anything, the police will know exactly who he is and can easily apprehend him. So sorry this happened to you, stay safe and big hugs from me
Pat
I went to Mexico and apparently noise is normal. Lol! 🤣🤣🤣
Soph
Soph
Everyone, thank you for your comment. I appreciate it. I had no Wi-Fi. I barely just got any so it took me forever to reply to you guys, but I appreciate it. The only reason why I’m worried the way I am is because he doesn’t have help his parents his mom‘s involved in his dad is out of the picture but just got involved a couple months ago I heard from one of my other friends from one of my friends who keeping close tabs on them. I also heard from my cousin Sierra who decided the only ones who are involved with him are his parents he’s got siblings, but they don’t talk to him. Police have him on record. He’s harmed for other girls in Canada before me and admitted to him so they know I don’t know who released him on good behavior, but whoever it was better put him back in cause the last girl he hurt ended up in the hospital for six months intubated
Rachel K
The Tone Smith
BabyTroll
I'm so sorry that you're going through this and have been looking over your shoulder every second. It's a terrible feeling to be on alert like you're some kind of animal just waiting to be hunted. The blind community is pretty small although it can seem big at times. There are lots of people who play Dice World and may have interactions with him. If he comes on here and goes by Jacob and is from Canada. We'll get him off of here no problem. But everyone on here that has commented is right. There's not much he can do from another country and he's blind. It may not ease your fears knowing that, but do take careful measures online and in person and don't hesitate to contact authorities. Just to have something on the record.
King Tripple Whopper
King Tripple Whopper
smooth
Romy
Do you have anything you commute to? Work? College? If you take rideshare/a cab, always confirm identity. Never go into a vehicle with a stranger unless you have confirmed a name. Do you walk home? Always stay in lit areas. Talk to friends, discord, whatever. Do so loudly and clearly. Do you need sighted assistance anywhere? Pay attention to your environment. Are you going into an area with a far lower noise volume? Were you simply lost on your way somewhere, and you don't remember having gone tje particular way they’re leading you down at all? There's a lot more I can tell you, but lastly, go with your gut. Every time. Dude asks you out, and he seems nice, but you kinda get a funny vibe you can't explain? FUCKING CANCEL! Person guiding you and you feel like you're going the wrong way? Say something. Loudly. Act like a dramatic cuntasaurus if you have to. You at a party and you feel kinda weird but you don't wanna be rude and just ditch them? FUCKING DITCH THEM! Maybe you are being dramatic. Or flaky. Or aggressive for no reason. Or annoying. Tough shit. At least you're not dead. These may seem like no shit sherlock pieces of advice, and they are. But frankly, unless you've had reason to fear for your life, you aren't generally keeping these concerns in the forefront of your mind.
Romy
So realistically speaking, it would be a fuck ton of effort to kidnap a citizen from another country, break into their house to fetch her visa/passport, get her to an airport, get her to cooperate peacefully in the inevitable long-ass flight back to Canada and convince Canadian customs officials that the clearly foreign girl that looks nothing like his family is totally willingly going with them. That being said, there are some habits you could, and honestly should, start practicing that will hopefully lower your chances of you being in danger.
The AI Wizard
Wait? He’s totally blind and doesn’t even live in the same country? Is he some kind of millionaire? You should tell us who it is, will definitely protect you on here. 
Gordon
But on the other hand, I wouldn't let him control you and keep you in fear all the time. He's not even in your country and the chances are so minimal that he could ever even get into your country. There's really no way he can ever pull something like that off without some serious outside help. So I would just tell him to fuck off and go back to living your life. 
Gordon
Yes, this could've been a very big deal a couple of years ago when you were under age and you said that his parents were showing interest in trying to help him get you. They could've been locked up for life for engaging in that type of behavior. Perhaps they would have been if this all took place in the same country. It can sometimes be a little difficult to make things happen when you're dealing with two different countries. 
Soph
I also know he’s not the type to get on these apps says it’s lame and boring, but I wouldn’t put it past him
Soph
I believe Australia is pretty strict when it comes to getting into the country. I’m not too sure of their laws. I I could look into it and see. I just know his name is Jakob and he’s in Canada.
Jasmin
Block him and definitely report this to the police. So sorry you're going through this.
Chrysalis
Gordon
And of course if he shows up on this app, let us know so everybody can bust his balls. 
Ciara
Please report this ASAP.
Gordon
And I would think that you would have to have some pretty on spot serious documentation to get into Australia or to even get out of the country that he lives in. If he were sided in a millionaire with his own leader jet, maybe there would be something to be concerned about. But he's just a blind dude with his phone talking shit and I really wouldn't worry about it too much really. Block him, and document any kind of harassment that he might attempt after he blocked him and report that. 
Soph
Kevin gave it to him after I broke up with him cause he was upset
Soph
No, his friend Kevin gave it to him
Pat
Also use the buddy system when in public. Let others know what he looks like and what his mom looks like. 
Gordon
I don't think I would be too terribly worried about this because in order to get to Australia you got a really pull some strings first of all. And the fact that he's blind, he's not going to be able to do this by himself. So I think for the most part he's just trying to scare you. How did he get all of your information? Did you give it to him? 
Soph
And the part about hacking into his phone it was either that or disappear without a trace without me, knowing without any warning it wasn’t a great idea but at least this way I knew I was able to stop it to prevent it 
Pat
I don't know the laws of Australia, but I would get some potent pepper spray for personal protection. I personally use a company called Fox labs. Very strong. 
Soph
Yes, he knows everything where I’m from my address. What country I live in my full name he is blind. He’s only doing this cause I rejected him because I was 16 and he was 22. It was a valid reason not even I was like 15 maybe younger long story short he’s in his 20s. I wasn’t gonna date him even now for that person who wanted to know I’m from Australia, Mom‘s British dad‘s Australian and I was born in Australia 
The AI Wizard
You might leave out the part about hacking into his phone, that could get you into some trouble.
Pat
Yes, report this to the police immediately. Tell them your concerns and all about his past behavior. 
Rachel K
So does he know your address? 
Gordon
I'm not sure how other countries were, but it seems like over here electronic harassment is taken more seriously than in person harassment. I've heard of people before that were being stalked by ex-boyfriend's who were doing it in person and the authorities would simply tell them that they would have to wait for that person to actually do something before they could act. But it seems like with the electronic harassment it's taken more seriously for some reason over the personal physical stuff. 
Gordon
But my advice would be is to report this to your federal authorities. They probably have special task forces that monitor the stuff and keep track of it. 
The AI Wizard
I wouldn’t even know where to start to hack into anybody’s phone. 
The Tone Smith
Does this person know who you are? I mean like who you are in real life? Would this person be actually able to find you? Are they blind or sighted? I'm just trying to understand how much information this person might have about you etc. From the sound of your accent you are not from Canada where you said this person was from, so that immediately reduces the risk somewhat at least.
Gordon
If your skills are good enough to hack into somebody's phone in another country, you got this under control. You're obviously several steps ahead of him. 
Soph
Of course you can he was acting suspicious, so I hacked into his phone and I saw his messages him and his mom were involved they were gonna take me hurt me basically make me comply with him make me his girlfriend give him what he wants 
Pat
May I ask how you found out he was going to kidnap you. 
The AI Wizard
Sorry for your struggle, that sounds rough. But I’m glad you felt comfortable to tell all of us. 
Soph
I couldn’t say this in the ramble itself so I’m putting it down in the comments. I’m not expecting attention from this to be honest. I don’t know what I’m expecting. If it gets somewhere OK if it doesn’t then that’s fine. I just won’t suggestions this guy‘s been after me for years police know that also my parents also know that he’s stalking me. They don’t know he’s out, but they know what he did to me what he tried to do I just want suggestions on how to protect myself really