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  • Uzi Cue

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  • zackmack2000

    Zack here, I have to agree. I know what that's like myself. It's never good just to be goasted like that. I wouldn't let it get out of hand anymore than it already has if I were you. Never fear, Romi is here!

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  • Igor

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  • zackmack2000

    shitship? I love that! Lol! Never fear, romi is here!

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  • Igor

    Replying to  @romi_marin: Audio

    No need to apologize.

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  • zackmack2000

    I swear your laugh is infectious. Hang in there.

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  • DebbieG

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  • zackmack2000

    Zack here again, yeah, you deserve to be treated a lot better than what your dealing with right now. You do what is best for you, don't let anyone string you along like that. Just curious are you in the what you call it old timer pontiac again? Sorry I just couldn't help myself on that one lol. Never fear, romi is here!

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  • scabbs

    Maybe i don't understand the situation fully.. But when the person is so busy that he can't take his phone and write a couple of messages for two weeks, you are not on the same way as to say. I would recommend trying to talk about ghosting and your feelings about all the situation and if it doesn't work, find someone who value you more.

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  • scabbs

    Just let him go. You can find a lot of nice people who will like to spend time with you and will find time to talk with you. Just be careful, don't let to abuse yourself or give yourself the silent treatment.

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  • Romi and Atena the GuideDog🦯🦮

    Thank you very much. I’ve give to him a second chance, but But he hurt me and disappointed me again. He always has an excuse for everything, but he only pays me a little attention, just enough to say he's there. How many times have I just told him that he should have told me honestly right away that he didn't want a relationship. His friend from the US came to visit him at the end of July, and I already knew that he would only avoid me then, but then he told me that he wouldn't. Now I know that I shouldn't have given him a second chance. And I blame myself the most for confessing to him how I felt about him a few months ago. He also told me that he constantly thinks about me, but now I see that it was just a lie. If I hadn't fallen in love with him, it would have been easy for me to end this farce, but unfortunately I can't. I told him to come to Switzerland for my birthday in October, and then he said he would come. But now I don't think he really cares. I understand that his friend came, but he shouldn't neglect me because of that either. And I've asked him a hundred times to tell me what I did to make him avoid me so much, but he doesn't respond at all, as if I don't exist. Maybe it's an exaggeration, but unfortunately that's how it is. I'm really not jealous, but I can't understand this behavior.

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  • scabbs

    You are not guilty in this situation in any case, and it is the right thing to tell about your feelings, do not blaim yourself. I understand friends and all that, but as you said, he shouldn't neglect you if he really loves you. In this case your feelings was used against you, I am very sorry for this and I hope that you will recover from this. Take your time, don't look for a replacement, don't talk to this guy. I don't think that if you've had a similar situation before and gave him a second chance, talking will do more, so just quietly block him. If you need any advice or support, feel free to message me anytime

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  • Romi and Atena the GuideDog🦯🦮

    Thank you so so much! Last time he didn't contact me for two months, then he showed up again. We were talking about a relationship and at one point he told me he was sure he wanted to be in a relationship. I asked him a few more times because everything is uncertain with him. Of course, he told me the same thing every time. And as the reason for his first two-month absence, he said he had to work on a website, so he didn't have time. I don't wish such a terrible thing on anyone!

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  • zackmack2000

    I think it's safe to say, it's time to move on. Just, wow. I've been down the same road as you, it's not good at all. You deserve so much better. Never fear, romi is here!

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  • Igor

    You do indeed deserve much better than this, clearly you are not being valued the way you should. If you need anything, I’m just a message away.

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  • zackmack2000

    I second that, always around if ever need to talk or anything.

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