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  • Shane

    Well? As much as I hate to admit it, voice is among the top 10 for me as well. Infact, it's one of the most important things. Maybe contreversial, but I can't help it. Obviously personality is a close second. Someone who can laugh at me whenever I say something Offensive or borderline offensive, rather than getting offended and thinking that I’m trying to talk about them. When in all reality, I’m just a lighthearted person trying to have fun and laugh. If I can make jokes about some of the things that I’ve done and laugh about it with you, I would hope that you would feel comfortable enough at a certain time or point to do that with me about you as well. I enjoy lighthearted banter as well. Someone who’s quickwitted and can clap back quickly. Quicker than me hahahaha. Would be a welcomed change. I don’t really like to change the way I am or who I am in front of anybody and I like to be myself. Trying is honestly too much effort and I want someone who can appreciate that. Obviously, there is still a time and a plaplace for everything, but when I say being myself, I really just mean doing everything that I would normally do if I was alone. Ie, watching the same content, eating the same snacks and maybe sharing them. I’ve found it before and I know it’s possible. I also value deep, late night conversations where both sides actually listen and can contribute. Not just where 1 person thinks that their problems rule the roost. I love a woman who's somewhat contreversial, but can also be pationt and soft with her man when necessary. I really don't expect a lot other than that. I've always been the gift giver, and I’m a hard person to shop for, so I don’t really expect someone to always be thinking of me and buying me all kinds of things. i appreciate the little things. Like when she sends me a song she heard me singing in the kitchen, and she says something below it like, "Wow! Noticed you knew every word!" I'm that type of person. I like to catch people at the most random times and capture little Kodak moments. Lets go sit outside and listen to the crickets while we have a fire and cook smores over it. i'm simple. I don't ask a lot. Just someone who's confident in their abilities with me, and knows all too well how to press buttons. I hope that answers your question. I’m sorry that this was a little bit long.

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  • Shane

    Also somebody that loves the outdoors. Someone that’s open to trying new experiences or even some of the things that I liked even before I knew them. I don’t mind her being a homebody as long as those two things coexist together.

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  • Shane

    How much she stays home isn't the first thing I think about even though I am a prety moderately active person. Can't say I never leave the house though.

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  • Demonnkyng

    Alright, it’s 10 out of 10 Tuesday, so instead of a quick score I’m going to give you the full measure. Attraction for me has never been a single trait. It’s a combination, and the physical is only one piece of it. Yes, I’m drawn to a woman with a strong, confident figure — specifically, I find a full, beautiful posterior very attractive. I’m not going to pretend otherwise. At the same time, I’ve never treated body type like a deal-breaker or a ranking system. I’ve been attracted to different shapes and sizes. What matters more is how she carries herself, the quiet confidence or ease she moves with. The body is the first thing the eyes notice — or the lack thereof 😂 — but it’s never the thing that decides whether interest stays or fades. What actually holds my attention is the mind and the way she moves through the world. I need someone who is intelligent in the practical, living sense — not just book-smart, but sharp enough to think clearly when things get messy. Someone who can stay logical and grounded in chaotic moments instead of shutting down, spiraling, or becoming lethargic. Life gets loud. Plans fall apart. People disappoint. I respect the person who can keep her head, process what’s happening, and still choose how she responds. That kind of steadiness is rare and extremely attractive to me. Tied to that is the ability to listen — really listen. Not the polite nodding kind, but the kind where she actually absorbs what’s being said, remembers it later, and responds with thoughtfulness instead of waiting for her turn to speak. Thoughtful and considerate people stand out because they notice the small things and follow through. They make the people around them feel seen without making a performance out of it. That quality, more than almost anything else, tells me someone has emotional maturity. I’m also drawn to energy that isn’t passive. I don’t mean loud or constantly “on.” I mean the opposite of a lethargic mindset — someone who is explorative, open-minded, and genuinely adventurous. The kind of person who stays curious about the world and about other people, who’s willing to try new things, consider different perspectives, and step outside the familiar without needing everything to be perfectly safe or pre-approved. You can feel the difference between someone who is present and engaged with life and someone who is just occupying space. That openness and willingness to explore is magnetic. So when I say I’m looking for someone who is attractive and intelligent, I’m not ranking looks above everything else. Looks open the door. Character, clarity under pressure, the ability to listen, an adventurous and open mind, and a spirit that stays active are what keep someone in the room. The physical preference is real, but it’s incomplete on its own. The full picture is a woman who is grounded, thoughtful, sharp, open, and alive in her own life. That combination is what registers as a genuine 10 out of 10 for me.

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