Every blink has their kink, let’s discuss a few, and maybe find out why.
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Daisy
Brian Moore
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Sky pilot 77
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Estelle
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Estelle
I find it ironic that two women have now commented on this post, and yet that comment still exists.
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Matthew J
So your comment about people who experiment with gender typically choosing to go in the direction of the gender they are attracted to already is something psychologists have noted. They have called it. Autogynophilia. The idea of being attracted to oneself as a woman. Because they are attracted to women, and are kind of seeking their own acceptance through becoming one in a certain sense. Unfortunately, I think some people have corrupted that into trying to explain transgender people, which and really get very toxic and it wrong. But I think it is actually a valid interpretation when it comes to people who cross dress for example
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Albano
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Albano
PS, thanks for making the first post I have actually found genuinely interesting in literally months.
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Matthew J
So genuine question, not sarcasm in the slightest, how does toxic masculinity help to shape a foot fetish? I’m not seeing an immediate link. Perhaps I’ve missed something.
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Albano
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Matthew J
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Sky pilot 77
My point still stands. Majority of the post here are for men. Just like I said in my original post. Sit down.
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Matthew J
OK, I did the brave thing! LOL. Can’t believe I had admitted some of that in public for the first time. Fucking hell, where is the whiskey
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Matthew J
I don’t know bro, I feel like girls who engage with this kind of stuff in comments sections inevitably end up with horny dudes messaging them privately, not understanding that a girl who wants to talk about sex does not want to have it with them! I understand why more women stay silent in threads like that. They have more shit to deal with.
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DevilishAnthony
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Nick's World
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DevilishAnthony
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Daisy
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Daisy
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LordLundin
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Calum
@Matthew J, thanks for sharing. I don’t have a plushy fetish myself but I can almost see why it would be appealing, I’m sure some of this is stuff youve thought about yourself but I wonder if it’s to do with the difference between living in the sighted world of permanent unchanging objects and the world of the Blind, where things only exist while we’re interacting with them and dynamic change, the toy is like an unchanging anchor.
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LordLundin
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Matthew J
thanks for the questions all. so firstly, yeah the fur quality really matters. I prefer long fur you can get lost in. but size and species are more important. My lioness Madelyn has ok fur, it’s not incredible but she’s 5 ft 5 of lovely fierce big cat so she can get away with it haha. Like if I was presented with a rabbit for example, they have lovely thick fur but the species and the rather submissive quality they have for me would mean that they’re not as interesting sexually. Bears, big cats, wolves, strong creatures, that’s where I typically go. The only male in my collection has slightly rougher fur and that suits him somehow. Like it’s fine as I know I’ll be on the receiving end of some rough treatment by him anyway hahaha. My brain is weird
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Matthew J
Re my fem side: I don’t think it’s 100% sexual, but I do think it is at least sex-adjacent. I would love to perhaps have certain experiences, like a girl’s night for example, trying clothing, perfume, essentially getting ready as one of the girls, and maybe going out with a group in that persona. But it definitely has a sexual edge to it. I don’t picture myself as a fem going to work or like…doing the shopping or whatever. Hahaha. But there is something I love about the freedom I feel in such moments being her. And yes she does have a name, :).
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DevilishAnthony
When I'm with a group of women who know and accept me, I end up just being known as one of the girls. Women talk with me about all kinds of things, because they feel safe with me. I don't actually consider myself a woman, though. I'm just comfortable with my fem side, I guess. People who have only talked with me by voice and then met me later said they were so surprised. They thought I'd have a babyface, or that I wouldn't look as masculine as I do.
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Nick's World
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DevilishAnthony
But that's just it. Unless we share a kink, we're not going to understand it. We're all into what we're into. There are plenty of things that I don't understand, but I sure know the feeling of being outcast because of enjoying what I enjoy, and I would never knowingly inflict that feeling on anyone else.
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Nick's World
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Daisy
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Matthew J
Daisy, you are completely correct! This app is horny as hell at the moment.
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DevilishAnthony
Is it the app, or the people on it? Speaking only for myself… Oh, never mind.😅
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Dave Taylor
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DevilishAnthony
Thanks for sharing your story, Dave. It's quite fascinating.
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Matthew J
Agreed, and it brings up a really interesting point, namely that I think kinks can absolutely develop from things that you hate, and negative experiences, not just positive ones. A strong negative reaction to a given stimulous and a strong positive one really aren’t that different from a neurochemical perspective as I understand it. I mean think about people who have scat kinks for example it can also work for experiences. Like all of the guys who love to be insulted and made fun of because of their small penis. I mean, that’s a classic example of eroticising something that actually is otherwise a source of shame.
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Calum
For some people, tention is necessary for desire, after all if you only engage with things you like they can become predictable and boring.
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Estelle
While I'm not into feet as a thing, I experienced some trauma as a teenager where a guy engaged with my feet (Among other things), in a sexual context while I was asleep. I'm definitely totally into sleep-related play now, but fear play where my feet are concerned has definitely crept into my sexual (Or socksual) vocab. It's worth saying the only person I trust in these arenas is my partner so please don't be that guy.
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Daisy
Socksual vocab 😂
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Daisy
It's not uncommon at all for people who have experienced sexual assault to get into consensual nonconsent and similar things, and as has already been said, degradation and humiliation are a whole thing, so yeah negative experiences and negative stimulus can definitely lead to sexual arousal. Turning the thing that makes you feel bad feelings into something that brings you pleasure can be a really healing thing sometimes. It's a tricky balance though because it can also just be retraumatizing.
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LordLundin
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DevilishAnthony
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Nick's World
I've heard some very interesting answers here. I never thought people could like things like vomit or other more niche things like that but I don't judge, and its really more psychological than physical which is something that I never really thought about but its true and its valid.
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Danielle P
Wow, this discussion is just fascinating! :-)
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DevilishAnthony
I agree! I love this sort of conversation, finding out what people are into. I especially love it when there's just curiosity, with no judgment. We can't help what we're into.
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Matthew J
I can’t believe this post is still getting any degree of traction LOL. Thanks for stopping by.
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Danielle P
Lots of times disabled people are made to feel like celibate statues or blind profits. Neither of which is true at least in my case. :-)
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Matthew J
No indeed, so go on! What are your Kinks then? LOL you popped in here, don’t leave us hanging!
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Danielle P
ASMR sounds, especially chewing and licking. One fantasy I have is drinking someone’s milk.
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Matthew J
oh interesting. i've heard of kinks linked to asmr. makes sense. is it just the sound itself or what it represens?
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Danielle P
I think it can be a bit of both sometimes.
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