DevilishAnthony
But that's just it. Unless we share a kink, we're not going to understand it. We're all into what we're into. There are plenty of things that I don't understand, but I sure know the feeling of being outcast because of enjoying what I enjoy, and I would never knowingly inflict that feeling on anyone else.
Nick's World
DevilishAnthony
When I'm with a group of women who know and accept me, I end up just being known as one of the girls. Women talk with me about all kinds of things, because they feel safe with me. I don't actually consider myself a woman, though. I'm just comfortable with my fem side, I guess. People who have only talked with me by voice and then met me later said they were so surprised. They thought I'd have a babyface, or that I wouldn't look as masculine as I do.
Matthew J
Re my fem side: I don’t think it’s 100% sexual, but I do think it is at least sex-adjacent. I would love to perhaps have certain experiences, like a girl’s night for example, trying clothing, perfume, essentially getting ready as one of the girls, and maybe going out with a group in that persona. But it definitely has a sexual edge to it. I don’t picture myself as a fem going to work or like…doing the shopping or whatever. Hahaha. But there is something I love about the freedom I feel in such moments being her. And yes she does have a name, :).
Matthew J
thanks for the questions all. so firstly, yeah the fur quality really matters. I prefer long fur you can get lost in. but size and species are more important. My lioness Madelyn has ok fur, it’s not incredible but she’s 5 ft 5 of lovely fierce big cat so she can get away with it haha. Like if I was presented with a rabbit for example, they have lovely thick fur but the species and the rather submissive quality they have for me would mean that they’re not as interesting sexually. Bears, big cats, wolves, strong creatures, that’s where I typically go. The only male in my collection has slightly rougher fur and that suits him somehow. Like it’s fine as I know I’ll be on the receiving end of some rough treatment by him anyway hahaha. My brain is weird
LordLundin
Calum
@Matthew J, thanks for sharing. I don’t have a plushy fetish myself but I can almost see why it would be appealing, I’m sure some of this is stuff youve thought about yourself but I wonder if it’s to do with the difference between living in the sighted world of permanent unchanging objects and the world of the Blind, where things only exist while we’re interacting with them and dynamic change, the toy is like an unchanging anchor.
LordLundin
DevilishAnthony
Daisy
Daisy
DevilishAnthony
Nick's World
DevilishAnthony
Matthew J
I don’t know bro, I feel like girls who engage with this kind of stuff in comments sections inevitably end up with horny dudes messaging them privately, not understanding that a girl who wants to talk about sex does not want to have it with them! I understand why more women stay silent in threads like that. They have more shit to deal with. 
Matthew J
OK, I did the brave thing! LOL. Can’t believe I had admitted some of that in public for the first time. Fucking hell, where is the whiskey
Pat
My point still stands. Majority of the post here are for men. Just like I said in my original post. Sit down. 
Matthew J
Albano
Matthew J
So genuine question, not sarcasm in the slightest, how does toxic masculinity help to shape a foot fetish? I’m not seeing an immediate link. Perhaps I’ve missed something. 
Albano
PS, thanks for making the first post I have actually found genuinely interesting in literally months.
Albano
Matthew J
So your comment about people who experiment with gender typically choosing to go in the direction of the gender they are attracted to already is something psychologists have noted. They have called it. Autogynophilia. The idea of being attracted to oneself as a woman. Because they are attracted to women, and are kind of seeking their own acceptance through becoming one in a certain sense. Unfortunately, I think some people have corrupted that into trying to explain transgender people, which and really get very toxic and it wrong. But I think it is actually a valid interpretation when it comes to people who cross dress for example 
Estelle
I find it ironic that two women have now commented on this post, and yet that comment still exists.
Estelle
Pat
Brian Moore
Daisy
Matthew J
Blindness is the cream in the Oreo cookie of life! OK, that is by far the strangest, and somehow most apt thing I’ve heard in a long time 
Calum