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  • Doug Lee

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  • Sufe

    Agree with you insane. I kind of take issue with Nick and others who scoff at trying to find companionship in this community, on this specific app. There's nothing wrong with putting it out there because somebody else might hear his post and be interested. What is wrong with that? How is this app or Facebook or any other place any better? The only difference is, the people here most of them probably don't have a lot to offer when it comes to dating such as a job, a place of their own, and money that they don't have to wait for from the government. So if you're saying that he shouldn't go here if he wants to find other people who have similar lived experiences that is rather confusing. Because the people on here are more likely to understand a 22 or 42 year-old who is still living at home And never held down the job because chances are that person is in a similar situation. Versus on other apps where there are people who are out in the world, who have been working for several years, and who might not wanna sit at home all day on the computer. So yeah, why are you chasing people away From Finding companionship in a community with other people who have similar experiences and won't be as judgmental about it? Just really. It's very annoying. The blind community is no different than any other community. It has the same drama. The same immature people as anywhere else. And it also has the same chances of people finding companionship. I mean it's happened. I know that several people have met and gotten married on apps like VORAIL and I know back in the day when the zone was around, a lot of people met and found relationships there. So stop this weird thing that you have against your own community. There are good and bad people everywhere.

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  • Doug Lee

    Nick, I've seen desperation, even on here. I did not "feel" desperation in this particular post. I sensed simple interest in finding someone this time, which is what prompted me to call the post "balanced." And this app is multi-purpose, but "relationships and dating" is a category that, as I understand things, does permit this sort of post.

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  • Sufe

    thanks insane, you reemphasized what I said a bit much more concisely than I did. or what got buried. Basically, telling someone who is visually impaired not to find love in a community of other visually impaired people seems a bit silly. But I see it a lot and I don't get it. especially when people go on and on about how difficult they find navigating and interacting with the sided world and the people in said world. And yeah, it's no different than a deaf person seeking companionship in a deaf community because according to my friend, hearing people are exhausting! Lol anyway, good luck to the original poster whatever comes of this. and Nick, your reply was four minutes long. I usually stop listening to posts after two minutes. So if it's something you really want me to get, write it out my friend. ✍️☺️

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  • Nick's World

    least the guy has the balls to ask. I'll give him that. I guess the dating game has changed that much that you have to be so direct with it.

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  • Sufe

    This is what I'm not getting Nick? What is he doing that's any different than what people are doing when they put profiles up on OkCupid? Plenty of fish? Is it weird because you can hear him? If people made audio posts instead of photo posts on Tinder for example would that be less weird and desperate to you? This is what I mean? Like I don't know what your argument is or how him putting himself out there is any different than anybody else putting themselves out on any of the dating apps you think are more superior than RAMBLIO etc. Lol

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  • Nick's World

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  • Sufe

    One last thing I want to say. When we think about dating and how people meet each other, it makes sense that blind people who are usually on audio first social media apps more than usual should find each other on here because out in the world people find each other at work, or while visiting their favorite coffee shop. So I guess what I'm trying to say, if the dating apps aren't working, think about Trying to meet people out in the real world. Make yourself go out to places if you don't have a regular place of social interaction to go to on the daily like school/university or a job. I have found much more success when I've accidentally struck up a conversation with someone at a Coffee shop, a bookstore, heck even the once at a Renaissance fair. So yeah guys, if the electronic scene isn't doing it for you, maybe that's the universe telling you that you might find better success if you go out of your house. Out of your comfort zone. and to chantel, in case there are any idiots who come in here and wanna get on you about your totally OK convention hook up, don't mind them. People meet on Facebook talk about meeting at CSun or some other conference type deal, for example and hook up, and never see each other again. Cited, blind, etc. people do exactly what she did all the time and it's not a big deal. So I'm glad you had a good time at the ACB. Maybe if more people had gone to a real life social interaction like that, they would've found a partner as well. Even if it was just for the week. ❤️‍🔥

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  • Nick's World

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  • Rook

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  • Doug Lee

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