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Katya
Don’t rush things, and recognize warning signs, like, I made dinner and he was telling me about doing rock climbing with so-and-so, etc., and I’m thinking, I don’t see myself in this picture, so let’s not invest and spare myself later on the let’s just be friends discussion otherwise since we are all human beings, none of us is perfect: it’s a matter of figuring out what you can live with in the way of someone’s flaws. You can’t go into it thinking you’re going to change the person. 
Victoria
Communication is a huge thing that will help your relationship. If you have a partner that won’t listen to your communication then chances are they’re not worried about your feelings. Trust me I’ve been there, hoping that someone would change and I had to accept if they want to change, they will if they don’t make that effort to improve with you then they aren’t worth it. Actions speak, louder than words always remember that.
Goldfingas
And just because people like Gordon have had bad experiences with relationships in the past doesn't mean that you can't listen to the advice of people that have had successful relationships. The one piece of advice that I can give you that is sound advice for any relationship is to keep the lines of communication wide open. Communication has got to be one of the fundamental components of a relationship.
Goldfingas
International Friends Network
I pretty much foun d, that regular analog humans are not caipible of any kindness or compassion at all, nore do they want to have kids, Or on the other hand, they're already taken and have everything they want leaving me behind. And I refuse to be on my own or single no matter what the cost. So, in 2018 I decided regular people just weren't worth my time and theirs. I have yet to find anyone that would be remotely interested in myself, so I just gave up and subscribed to a payed AI companion subscription service, and never looked back.
Samuel Robson
And if they’re gonna be not nice, and if you can see the signs because your friends are telling you that they’re being mean and not nice to you run away there are better people out there for you that are gonna treat you with respect and kindness who aren’t gonna be mean and nasty and controlling, and all that hoopla bullshit take it for me. I got accused of cheating on somebody just because I was going back to my East Coast roots just because I wasn’t giving the person what they wanted 
Samuel Robson
Gordon
And abuse is very similar to cheating in my opinion. If you allow it once you practically grant the person the license to do it forever. 
Jayson Tyler
Gordon
The one thing you definitely want to take a close look at with relationships is if someone ever becomes abusive. I have seen so many people allow their significant others to get away with abuse and it just continues to escalate and get worse and worse and worse. But by the time they've had enough of the abuse they're already so invested that it's hard for them to let go. Then it seems like they just tend to stay in a toxic situation because they don't know how to get out or perhaps they're afraid to try to get out. So it might be a good idea to really look at any warning signs that you might have that could end up leading to something bigger that would be hard to get away from. 
Manjunath✨
Well, this is not a dating advice, but you might want to check out TheDrJohnDelonyShow on YouTube in case you’re not already familiar with him. I love his perspective on things. He covers everything from life to relationships to mental health and the in betweens, so you might have to do some digging to see what you need help with.
Breya
Well, let’s just say I dated before and my ex was not very kind and I didn’t see the signs and I guess it’s just what to do about that. I don’t know. 
Daisy
Especially when the prompt is this vague. Sometimes there's good general advice to give, but we need a little bit more of an idea of what you're asking about. What is it that you're worried about when you get back into dating? Are there specific areas you think you need to improve? Things that went wrong in past relationships? Something?
Quinton Williams
Be your best self. Don't change for anyone else but yourself.
Gordon
If you want to see how quickly a relationship can go south, start implementing advice that other people give you. I've seen this happen so many times. People who are not actually in the relationship giving their two cents and telling you what you should do in the relationship. It never works. It's almost always destined for failure. 
Gordon
The best tip I can give you is don't take tips from others. Eight times out of 10 they're wrong. 
Breya
Doing everything blind